"Refine Me, Lord"

We often find ourselves in situations where we feel the need for spiritual growth and transformation. Life's challenges can test us in many ways, and it is during these times that we may seek a deeper connection with the love of the Lord.

Read more as we explore the concept of "dying to ourselves" as a transformative journey, drawing insights from Malachi 3:2 and Proverbs 17:3. This journey is an opportunity for us to refine ourselves and align more closely with God's will.

The Promise of Transformation

However, as we grapple with the pain, it's essential to remember that this suffering can be a crucible for personal growth. It is the process of "dying to ourselves" - letting go of our own desires, ego, and attachments - that can lead us to a deeper understanding of God's love and purpose for our lives.

Malachi 3:2 (KJV) speaks of this process: "But who may abide the day of his coming? and who shall stand when he appeareth? for he is like a refiner's fire and like fullers' soap." The image of a refiner's fire and soap suggests purification and transformation. Just as metal is refined through intense heat, so too can our spirits be refined through the trials of life.

The Challenge of Dying to Ourselves

Dying to ourselves is not an easy path to walk. It requires letting go of our desires, pride, and self-centeredness. It means surrendering our own plans and seeking God's will above all else. At times, it may feel overwhelming, and we might be tempted to resist this process. However, it is precisely during these moments of inner turmoil that we must hold on to our faith, our prayers, and our worship.

Holding on to God's Promises

In our moments of despair, we must cling to God's promises. They are the anchor that keeps us steady as we navigate the stormy seas of life. His promises remind us that we are not alone, that He is with us every step of the way. Whether it's the promise of comfort, strength, or redemption, God's word is a source of hope and solace.

Proverbs 17:3 (KJV) beautifully illustrates the idea that God tests and purifies our hearts: "The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the Lord trieth the hearts." Just as precious metals are tested and refined, so too are our hearts tried and purified in the furnace of life's challenges.

Embracing Transformation

As we go through the process of "dying to ourselves," we begin to transform. Our hearts become more aligned with God's will, and our desires shift from what we want to who He wants us to be. This transformation is not an overnight process; it's a journey that requires patience and perseverance.

In challenging times and moments of emotional pain, it's crucial to recognize that there is a profound purpose to our trials. They serve as opportunities for spiritual growth, allowing us to shed our egos and embrace the purifying flames of God's guidance. Though it might initially feel like a spiritual death, in truth, we are being reborn into an improved version of ourselves, more closely aligned with the love and divine purpose of the Lord.

So, whenever life's trials test you, remember to "cling to your prayers, maintain your worship, and, above all, hold steadfast to God's promises." Place your trust in His divine plan, allowing Him to refine you so that you may walk the path He has carefully designed for you, rather than simply pursuing your own desires.

November 8, 2023

B Nicole Baxley